Patricia M. Lux, LCSW
1408 W. Abram St.  #107
Arlington, TX  76013

FAX 817.460.1717
Pre-Marital Counseling

“What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.”
–Leo Tolstoy

Strongly Suggested Reading:
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Love is a Decision by Gary Smalley & John Trent
• Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married by Gary Chapman
• His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley, Jr.
• Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts by Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott
• Boundaries in Marriage by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
• Safe People by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Pre-Marital Counseling Topics:
• Communication
• Boundaries
• What is a Safe Relationship? (“Before the I Do’s” by Arch Hart & Sharon M. May)
• “The Pile Principle” (From Refuge by Dr. James Reeves)
• Intimacy, Romance and Sex
• Spirituality/Faith
• The Do’s and Don’ts of a Good Marriage
• What is a Healthy Relationship? Recognizing Warning Signs if the Relationship is Unhealthy.
• Gender Gap Facts
• Decision Making and Finances
• Must Have Conversations: Goals, Expectations and Responsibilities
• Conflict Resolution

Catholic Pre-Marital Counseling Available

Pre-Marital counseling attendance is often mandated by a church or pastor. I recommend at least six 45 minute sessions. Supplemental materials (readings, evaluations and worksheets) will be provided. Between sessions assignments will be given and will be discussed during following session. The fee for Couples Therapy is $80 per session or if a “six session package” is preferred the fee would be $395.00 (a savings of $85). The “six session package” must be completed within 12 weeks.